sometimes have you ever looked at someone and realise that actually you are no different?
ever listened to someone's problems and thought that maybe you are also having the same problems?
ever comfort someone and realise that you are actually comforting yourself too?

what do you do when you love someone so much but at same time, you know that you two cannot get along, no matter how much you tried?
what do you do when you start to realise that both of you are so different that its hard to relate to each other, right from the start?
how long can both of you compromise to each other and what happens when you decide to stop compromising?
when you compromise to each other and in some cases, change a bit of things here and there to accomodate to each other, does it also mean you're not exactly being true to yourself?

when you try to save a relationship, are you being strong and determined or just plain insecure and maybe scared to be alone after being with that someone for so long?

when you end the relationship, are you being evil and selfish, not taking into account the other party's feelings? or that, you feel that it's better to hurt him/her now rather than later when he/her gets too involved, when you both know that the relationship just cannot work?